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Wednesday, March 28, 2018

Word of the Week: Collaborate

For the past seven weeks or so, I have been choosing one word that would best describe my week or what I most want achieved that week. I would write that word down in my journal/planner, at the bottom of my weekly calendar.

I thought this week would be a tough one since there's so much to do I couldn't really focus on one project or goal. But then, my eyes fell on the opposite page of my journal where I'd just finished jotting down the things I'm most grateful for this week. Almost every item on it are people with whom I have been working with on one project or another.

This may seem like something very common to some, but not to me. I have always been inclined towards working alone rather than with a partner or team. It's pretty tough for me to brainstorm with others without either clamming up or monopolizing ideas. I also find it hard to ask for help or share a workspace with others. 

Thankfully, God has been patiently showing me this weakness and helping me overcome it by giving me opportunities to share more with others.

This week has been filled with those. And the opportunities came in so beautiful a manner that I didn't have time to feel awkward about it. 

There are the moms who are sharing their resources/plans/ideas for future Child Education projects. There's the youth who helped me clean out the office. There are the church brethren who give gardening advice and gifts for the kids' sunflower project that I started. There are the youth leaders preparing for our major activity this weekend. There's the Publishing Team and all the production plans for the upcoming camp meeting. And I'd even count in all the Facebook conversations I had this week that included some sort of plans, sharing, and agreements.

So the word for this week is COLLABORATE. It's to realize that truly no man is an island, that there's beauty in synergy, and that God works in the hearts of His people to bring them together in His service, like stones framed together for the upbuilding of His kingdom.

Best of all, "For we are labourers together with God: ye are God’s husbandry, ye are God’s building." 1Corinthians 3:9

God is working with me on me, building me up to become who He wants me to be. And sometimes He uses other people as instruments for that work. 



Monday, September 02, 2013

How to Make a "Teambuilding" Activity Super Fun

A rundown of tips to have a fun (ehem!) teambuilding activity with the youth, like we had yesterday at the beach:

1. If someone suggests that you hold a recreation/get-together/teambuilding activity somewhere special, agree with all your heart. Our getaway plan was Elleyse's idea, and we love it.



2. Set a date. For best results, set the date to tomorrow.


3. Plan, but not too much. Just agree on two things: (1) assembly time, and (2) to text one another.



4. Invite people. If they don't come, see Tip #10.

5. On the agreed date, meet up and head to your fun destination. If the said destination doesn't turn out to be as nice as you thought...

6. Go somewhere else. More fun if you don't know exactly where that "somewhere else" is so you have the opportunity to take "lost" photos of yourselves. Important: Don't forget to update late participants about your current and still-changing locations.



7. While lost, keep your eyes out for potential venues. For example, an old, rusty gate, with a view of the beach and a sign that says "Inquire." 

8. Set up food and drinks. These are things that you didn't actually plan on bringing (because Tip #3), but you're hoping at least one of you thought about it. :D



9. Play charades. Especially about the people who were supposed to be there but aren't. (haha. don't worry guys, we were nice... mostly.)





10. Take lots of pictures. For documentation and to make people from Tip #4 jealous so that next time they'll know better and join you.











11. Play games that make you look silly. No photo example of this in action. We were too busy holding our tummies in painful laughter. :D

and final tip...

12. On your way home, laugh a lot and excitedly talk about next week's "teambuilding" activity. And this time, do better than Tip #3.






Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Officially 26


today will be memorable. i woke up to friends serenading me. i dropped my dslr for the first time (that should mean something, right?). something in me died and something better sprang up in its place. i taught someone and learned from someone. i received rose-colored glasses. thank You, Lord for channeling Your love through so many beautiful people. please make me worthy of them.

special shout out to auntie Perla for this pair of shades that totally matched my shirt.




Thursday, May 30, 2013

Youth Convention 2013

Without really planning (much less, preparing) for it, I travelled all the way to Bataan to attend a weeklong youth convention with four of our teenage girls from church.

The youth convention, the fifth one organized by the Seventh-Day Adventists Present Truth Believers, was held May 14-19 at the Nuclear Power Village in Bagac, Bataan. It was also the first time the youth from our church were exposed to as many as 102 other young people receiving the light of the present truth in a gathering specially organized for the purpose.



We arrived in Manila May 13, 11 pm and were met by Pastor Dave Matudan and his son Jedd. They took us to dinner and, after vainly insisting on bringing us to a more comfortable place to stay, hesitantly agreed to bring us to their headquarters (called “mission house”) in Quezon City where we slept for about four hours.
In the morning, we had early morning worship before heading out for groceries, getting shocked at the poor quality of the veggies at PureGold and amazed at the low prices at a Korean store.


At around 1:30 in the afternoon, we (jamee and i) headed off to Bataan by bus with about 40 other delegates. Sadly, I slept through most of the trip so I didn’t get to see much.

The venue for this year’s convention was an old village originally designed for employees of the Nuclear Power Plant of the National Power Corporation. The organizers rented about eight houses that could accommodate around 20 persons each, distributing them across four airconditioned rooms in each house.


There’s a common kitchen, dining area and living room. Two rooms share a toilet and bath.
We were housed with the delegates from Bulacan and Palawan, with Pastor Michael Matudan as house pastor.

We woke up at 5:30 each morning for devotionals held at the driveway of our assigned house. After that, we went about preparing breakfast, taking turns using the shared toilet and bath, eating, and getting dressed for the morning session which began at 8:00. Some days the girls got to go out and tour the venue.

Morning sessions consisted of two topics discussed by different speakers. The group would then break up for lunch and come back at 2:00 pm for the afternoon session, which covered just one topic.

The convention’s theme was “God’s Special Force: Called to Stand Apart” and the topics dwelled on how SDA youth should be different from the world, not taking part in their dainties, working for the Master and making special preparation for the coming of Jesus. The topics discussed throughout the entire YC were:

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  • Called to Stand Apart - The call for young men to duty
  • The History of the Church – How true religion calls you to be separate from the world
  • God’s Special Force – A call for dedication of our Time, Talents, Treasures, Soul Temples
  • Strength of Character – The power of will and the power of self-control and the danger of turning back against God
  • The Everlasting Covenant – Yielding of the will and the heart in obedience to the will of God
  • Love’s Twin Sister – The importance of coupling love with a sense of duty, diligence and thoroughness in small things, especially in home responsibilities
  • Standards of Success – How our obedience unlocks God’s blessings
  • Sanctuary and Atonement – The plan of salvation illustrated
  • Creeping Compromise – The importance of being able to recognize the clever camouflage of the enemy
  • Remember – The importance of the Sabbath and how it ought to be kept by God’s professed people
The rest of the afternoons were spent out in the field, playing team building games, which proved to be so much fun for everybody and provided for a much more comfortable environment for interaction and acquaintance among delegates.


The main event of these outdoor activities was apparently the kadang challenge held on Friday, the highlight being the all-star round with the pastors composing one team and the boys’ selection composing the other. The boys finally ended the pastors’ four-year reign as champions. Smile

After the outdoor activities came the joint sundown worship, except for the Sabbath sundown worship which was conducted by house.

On Sabbath, the topics discussed throughout the week were summarized and condensed into three basic distinctions between the Seventh-day Adventist Youth and the world – distinction in DOCTRINE, PRACTICE, and CHARACTER. In the afternoon the group was broken into small groups, each group composed of members from different churches, to discuss the topics and how they can be applied in the day-to-day life of the average Seventh-day Adventist.

At the end of the Sabbath came the most-awaited topic of all – LCM or Love, Courtship, and Marriage. The discussion put forward the principles and safeguards that should be adopted by ever SDA youth if he/she is to have a happy, Christ-centered marriage and family life. The discussion ended at almost 12 midnight!

And thus ended the Youth Convention. The following morning, we slept in a little longer and had morning worship in the room. We then packed everything up and got ready to leave – which we did early afternoon. That gave us ample to time to take last-minute  photos and just bond with the other delegates.

The trip back to Quezon City took us about four hours and many stopovers, made easy by the presence of new friends.




Pastor Dave took us to a vegetarian restaurant for dinner, and then to Mount Clemens Church where we would spend the next two nights before our flight home to Davao.

Most of the pastors and workers were there to send us off at the airport. In all of our prayers throughout that memorable week, we always thanked God for the hospitality and kindness offered by our brethren in this part of the country. We were very well-taken care of and no week-long stay in a strange place could have been more comfortable.

It was a wonderful new experience for the five of us – new places, new friends, new learning, renewed faith and zeal for service. I keep praying that the things we have learned will help us to grow in our personal relationship with Christ, to relate ourselves more efficiently as Christians to a world coming to its end, to come to a clearer understanding of our responsibilities as a chosen people, to realize our opportunities and possibilities.

May this passage be instilled and realized in each of our lives, and may we live to fill the greatest, though often unseen, want of the world.

What a lifework was that of these noble Hebrews! As they bade farewell to their childhood home, how little did they dream of their high destiny! Faithful and steadfast, they yielded themselves to the divine guiding, so that through them God could fulfill His purpose. The same mighty truths that were revealed through these men, God desires to reveal through the youth and the children of today. The history of Joseph and Daniel is an illustration of what He will do for those who yield themselves to Him and with the whole heart seek to accomplish His purpose.The greatest want of the world is the want of men--men who will not be bought or sold, men who in their inmost souls are true and honest, men who do not fear to call sin by its right name, men whose conscience is as true to duty as the needle to the pole, men who will stand for the right though the heavens fall… Every youth, every child, has a work to do for the honor of God and the uplifting of humanity.  {Ed 57 - 58}

***If you are, in any way, impressed to attend next year's youth convention, feel free to contact me so I could get you in touch with the organizers. God bless you. :)

Tuesday, October 02, 2012

Pizza, Prutas, Paper Tricks

Salamat, kuya!

ma-gets ra lagi nako ni puhon.

i had to walk part of the way home, but the afternoon was worth it.

somehow you manage to be there when i most need a friend. aaaand, you were more prepared to entertain this time. nagbaon ug paper tricks which, mark my word, i will learn someday.

Till my Palawan pasalubong. Ciao.



Tuesday, September 25, 2012

New Friends in the Faith


It's always a joy to find new friends and build new relationships 
centered in Christ.

Behold, how good and how pleasant [it is] for brethren to dwell 
together in unity!
Psalm 133:1

We thank the Lord for the opportunity to meet, study God's word together, and together be enriched and inspired by the knowledge of God's love that cuts across distance to bind His people together in spirit and truth. He does have a way of bringing His people together.

Our guests with the Royal Valley young people



flight of the Jedi
at Skyline Bistro

Final photo-ops at the airport

Bernie and Jaja

JR and Jaja

Jed and Jaja

Rex and Jaja

with Pastor Leve

with Pastor Leve, Pastor Roy, and Sis. Risha

Bernie and the great weigh in.

Bumigat si Kuya Rex ng sampung kilo, lahat yun durian. peace, kuya.

Good to go.

Please know that you'll always have family this part of the planet. See you soon!

And P.S. (to the kids):
"...whatsoever ye do, do it all for the glory of God."





Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Friends Reunited



Gladys Ethel Ana Ronora circa 2003




Gladys Ronora Ana June 2012
(no worries, Ethel's still alive. just married)



we also chanced upon dear friend Jeffrey with Lendle.


Happy Evening. :)